Friday, April 3, 2009

Unlock your incredible powers

You have no idea that those who guard their unproductive behaviors even though they cost them too much rarely think about being extremely powerful. They guard their unproductive behaviors because of feelings of insecurity that come from inferiority complex. I will show how to identify that pattern in a moment. Just stay with me.

From my experience I can give this statement.

As long as you guard your unproductive behaviors, you can’t live in the life of your dreams!

Guaranteed! 2000 %!

Why?

Simple! You don’t change. (Why should you? All your misery is due to something else other than you!)

If you don’t change, you keep doing the same old things and you keep getting the same old results. Correct?

Then how do you expect to live your dreams if you guard your unproductive behaviors?

Let me tell you this: you live in shit as long as you realize and accept to your self that you are in shit!

Common! No one is perfect. It’s ok to be like that. It’s not ok to guard it!

You may ask “well Raja, how do I know if I am guarding my unproductive behaviors?”

Good! See if any of these statements are true in your life. You need not tell this to any one, no one is going to know about them I won’t tell it to anyone. You have my word. It’s your life you are being with your self. Just be true to your self.

• When someone criticize you or give a constructive feedback, do you argue back or think about it?[At least when you are alone]
• When you fail at something do you ask your self ‘where did I go wrong?’ or look for justifications?
• When something goes wrong do you assume responsibility or look for ‘whom to blame?’
• Do you keep complaining with out doing much to change the situation or your response?
• Do you blame the fate for your misery?
• Do you say I know everything? Or I don’t need to learn?
• Do you invest in self improvement?
• When someone gives you a suggestion, do you follow it or argue why you can’t or don’t do it?
• Do you look for your faults?
• Do you look for improvement?

Okay! Good. What did you find about yourself? What ever it may be, my next posts will give you much more tools to deal with your life. So you may want tokeep reading this blog.

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